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By débora Ewing




 expanse


i’ll never understand
how to lift my wings  roll & maw
but i can watch you dodging
spinning grasping

concepts out of air
fold each like origami
& return to idle speakers
gifts they don’t recognize

stings a little to forget
saving birds is not my job
they were never meant to fly
so i watch them fall

away on some ocean wave
too expansive for me to grasp
but soft enough immense enough
quiet enough for me to love

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