Drama Addiction vs. America
Collectively, we are being sucked down the drain of drama, and taking our nation with us. We live in a reality TV show.
Drama's insidious, though. It sneaks in under the guise of love and friendship. It starts by listening to someone's problems. There's a level of vanity involved when you offer advice. Usually there is mutual feel-good, and the next time one of you has problems, you'll get together again.
Give yourself a pulse-check: does that person, or do you, ever talk about anything other than problems? When that person isn't around, do you go looking for someone else with problems to talk about? Do you scroll through Facebook hoping to be outraged? Are you really uncomfortable being alone for an extended amount of time?
You need to learn that if nothing is going on, it's actually okay. The empty space of nobody having a problem for an extended amount of time is healthy. Teach yourself to like the healthy space, STAT.
It does feel weird at first. You keep looking around for whatever it is that's missing, and you can't see it, because it's drama that is absent. Start giving yourself a No-drama score every time you feel weird. If something seems off, look around. On a scale of 1-10, how likely is the answer to be Absence of Drama? Write it down. You don't have to tell anybody what the numbers mean. Bonus points if you don't tell, in fact.
You can't expect someone else to cure your addiction for you. It gets easier, though.
The longer you are away from something that's unhealthy for you, the more you don't miss it. You already knew that, too.